Erica Banks said in one of her ‘close friends’ stories that if you’re not thick enough, hair not done good enough, or if you’re too skinny then you can’t club with her. She also added that you’re invited to the cookouts, she just wants a “certain look” when she pop out at the club.
CRAZY right?! I mean are we dating our friends, or are we genuinely friends with the people we hang with. Seems to me that deep down somewhere in your soul, you don’t feel good enough. You need a team of bad b.tches everywhere you go in order to feel like a bad b.tch.
It’s giving very much INSECURE. This type of mindset just makes a bunch of fake associates come around for the clout and not to really be a shoulder to lean on. We have really messed up the meaning of a “friend” nowadays. Jonathan changed the whole meaning with his “Freeennnn” word lol I’m just kidding.
Every one is searching for a type of “look” or aesthetic to be honest. You can’t be too old or too young, you can’t be a bum or look like one, you have to have some type of materialistic item in your possession, you have to have a certain amount of money to be able to hang out. It’s just all a big fake a.s scam now. Everybody want to be somebody and that’s okay, but why can’t you become someone while also being genuine.
What are your thoughts? Do you think she went a little too far? Do you think she didn’t mean it like that? Comment below!